In this time of uncertainty, it’s important to be extra observant of your child’s feelings and behaviors.  Change in our lives, often creates feelings of loss.  Especially a big change such as this pandemic.  Children (and adults) often grieve for the ways things were before.  Grief is a natural reaction that we all experience.  However, coping with grief can be difficult. Children struggle understanding why their lives have turned upside down.  They may appear more emotional or irritated, and act out differently from their norm.  

     Below are some suggestions on how to support your child in this time of need.  Please know that I am here to assist you in any way I can.  Don’t be afraid to reach out for help. You can contact me at (304) 348-1930.

In reference to the CDC (July 1, 2020), Helping Children Cope, children and teens react, in part, on what they see from the adults around them. When parents and caregivers deal with COVID-19 calmly and confidently, they can provide the best support for their children.  Parents can be more reassuring to others around them, especially children, if they are better prepared.  Not all children and teens respond to stress in the same way. Some common changes to watch for include:

  • Excessive crying or irritation in younger children.
  • Returning to behaviors they have outgrown (for example, toileting accidents or bedwetting).
  • Excessive worry or sadness.
  • Unhealthy eating or sleeping habits.
  • Irritability and “acting out” behaviors.
  • Poor school performance or avoiding school.
  • Difficulties with attention and concentration.
  • Avoidance of activities enjoyed in the past.
  • Unexplained headaches or body pain.
  • Use of alcohol, tobacco, or other drugs.


Here are some ways to support your child:

  • Answer questions and share facts about COVID-19 in a way that your child can understand.
  • Reassure your child that they are safe. Let them know it is okay if they feel upset. Share with them how you deal with your own stress so that they can learn from you how to cope with stress.
  • Limit your family’s exposure to news coverage of the events, including social media.  Children may misinterpret what they hear and can be frightened about something they do not understand. 
  • Try to keep up with regular routines.  If schools are closed, create a schedule for learning activities and relaxing or fun activities.
  • Be a role model. Take breaks, get plenty of sleep, exercise, and eat well.  Connect with your friends and family members.  
  • Spend time with your child in meaningful activities, reading together, exercising, and playing board games. 


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